The Most Common Order of Wedding Events

The order of wedding events can vary depending on cultural traditions, personal preferences, and logistical considerations. However, here’s a general outline of the typical sequence of events that might take place around a wedding.

Four Phases Make Up the Common Order of Wedding Events

1. Engagement Phase

Announcement of Engagement: The couple announces their engagement to family and friends.

Engagement Party: A celebration to mark the engagement and start the wedding festivities.

2. Pre-Wedding Events

Bridal Shower: A party for the bride, often involving gifts and games.

Bachelor/Bachelorette Parties: Separate parties for the groom and bride with their friends before the wedding.

Rehearsal Dinner: A dinner held the night before the wedding, often including the wedding party and close family members.

3. Wedding Day:

Traditional Wedding Ceremony: The main event where the couple exchanges vows and becomes legally married.

Wedding Reception: The celebration immediately following the ceremony, including dinner, dancing, and speeches.

Cake Cutting: The cutting and sharing of the wedding cake by the couple.

First Dance: The couple’s first dance as a married pair.

Toasts: Speeches and toasts by family and friends to congratulate the couple.

Dancing and Entertainment: Dance floor opens for guests to enjoy music and dancing.

Bouquet and Garter Toss: Traditions where the bride tosses her bouquet and the groom tosses the garter to single guests.

Special Dances: Mother-son dance, father-daughter dance, and other meaningful dances.

Other Cultural Traditions: Specific rituals or customs depending on the couple’s cultural or religious background.

4. Post-Wedding Events:

Post-Wedding Brunch: A casual meal the morning after the wedding for guests to unwind and say their farewells.

After-Party: An additional party for close friends and family to continue celebrating.

Remember that this sequence is just a general guideline, and the actual events and their order can vary. Some couples may choose to have a more elaborate or simplified version of these events based on their preferences and cultural influences. It’s important to plan the events in a way that makes sense for you and your loved ones. Choose wedding stationery that supports your style and wedding color complementing each phase of your special event.